Separation and Divorce is heartbreaking to all involved. It is similar to a death, but some would say it is worse than death because the relationship continues in one form or fashion. While death though also heartbreaking, there is closure, and the only relationship is in the memories.. Like grieving the death of a loved one, most people grieve the loss of a marriage and go through the same stages of grief. In this discussion I will give examples of stages of grief and what may be expected when there is a separation or divorce. I will also give examples of coping mechanisms to maneuver through this difficult time and to recover in hopes of maintaining a sense of peace.